best friend/welcoming update

well here is the latest in this on going saga..

my bf and I were suppsed to get together for a girls day about 2 weeks ago. She called me to tell me that she was at an EMT memorial service and didnt know how long it was going to run and lets resked.
I tried to reach her all day on her cell and it was either off or out of range. Left her msgs on her home machine but made sure to call her at work on mon in case the home msgs were erased!

anyways, it winds up tht she came over yesterday and brought her two little guys.
Her hubby was away on biz
Rob was home becuase of the rainy weather otherwise he was supposed to be at a aux police thing.

anyway- it is still awkward for me ...I still have issues with the way we were treated regarding the welcoming ceremony
she landed a new job-right around the corner from me...and we are sked to have lunch tomorrow

I think I need to talk to her about it...and how hurt we are.
how do I do this in such a way that she will listen and absorb it...and get my hurt.anger across too?

i am sure I can figure ti out it is just such an awkward feeling

Re: best friend/welcoming update

I think you both need a non-kids night out to talk and re-group.